Sex & Women


wive_refuse_sex Manhood isn’t associated with the ability to hunt, make money, fix things or shoot. It’s also not associated with the sense of superiority and physical strength. In fact, real men have still some amount of softness in them. The long history of human civilization shows that manhood is more about binding together families and communities, whether they are warrior soldiers or gentleman scholars. Men put love for their women first. They are willing to close the bedroom door slowly so that their wives can continue to sleep while he tries to soothe the baby. He works outside and inside the house every day for his family. He sees marriages not as “his” but as “ours”, where wives and children have significant contributions. Before asking for anything in return, husbands give happiness to their families.
Many men come home every day; turn on the TV, throw their shoes on the floor, asking for snacks and still wonder why their wives seem to get annoyed every day. Many wives lean against the kitchen counter wondering when those boys they have married could start act like a man. Men will go to bed after long hours in front of the TV, leading to another distant, communication-less night. This causes wives to feel harder and harder to keep the sense of emotional and physical intimacy.

Sex that was once an amazing enjoyment becomes less of a priority. It’s no longer a “sacred language” that couples use to represent their deep love with one another. The fantasy and reality become farther apart. The fireworks and giggles are just no longer there. Here are things husbands should understand why it is more difficult to encourage their spouses to have sex:

1. They want us to listen: Husbands should listen more, because wives have their concerns and dreams. We should know how the day has made them feel. We need to know about the failures and successes of the day. By listening to our wives, we could show them that they not just considered as minor things. The way we communicate with her shows that she is important. It isn’t just about anniversaries and birthdays, although it is very important that we don’t forget them. We should bring our wife’s favourite flower every now and then. It’s amazing that even a simple, sincere gesture could really change the way she acts. We should always show our wives that they are still our sweethearts. Hold her hand, give her time, play with her hair and wash the dishes. Despite the usual headaches associated with post childbirth stretch marks and mortgages, we should keep the romance burning.

2. They want to have a date: Stroll around downtown, while putting our hand her back. Take her to a movie, museum and restaurant. Simply make them fall in love again, by making her heart racing. It is suggested to make out in the car before we drive home.

3. They want us to act like man: Wives don’t live to put kids to bed, pick up our socks and wash our dishes, while we watch the TV for just “another five more minutes”. Women actually find men sexually appealing when they are willing to help with household chores and be more responsible. Women want their lives to be more meaningful and richer by making us their partner. We shouldn’t always try to prove them wrong. We should be their allies in joy, fear, tedium and adventure. She wants us to be there to kiss her bruised knees and change diaper together.

4. She wants a special time for herself: In a life full of hard work, wives also need their own space and time. She wants a room to do nothing all, stop, create and at least take a few deep breaths. Obviously, each woman is different. Some prefer to walk under the stars, while others prefer to dive into bubble baths. She should return feeling renewed and rejuvenated afterwards. No more “not tonight sweetheart, it’s a busy day, I’m tired”.

5. They want to have fun with sex: Women are more willing to have sex when regular orgasm is assured. But in many families, it isn’t always happen. For many men, female orgasm could be something that’s shrouded in deep mystery. There are things about female sexuality that are very different from typical male sexuality. Sexual arousal and orgasm among men can be nearly instant like switching on the light. Sexual arousal and orgasm can be flying a huge commercial airliner. There are dozens of buttons and switches that pilot must deal with in the right sequence and timing. Men shouldn’t be intimidated. Wives are in reality the best sex instructor. We should directly ask them about things that turn them on and things that we need to do during the actual intercourse session.

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It is reported that people in Britain are having less sex than ever before. This result is drawn from the findings of a study published in medical journal, The Lancet. Main reason behind this reduced tendency towards love is due to our addition to mobile phones and tables. It has also been observed that women’s sexual behavior has undergone significant changes in the past ten years as they have admitted having more male sexual partners as well as a growing number of women is seen having sex with other women.
A study was made with more than 15,000 people selected as sample from a huge population size. These people were talked about their sexual lives. A critical fact has come on the scene that:

“Money worries and the distractions of social media mean people are having sex less frequently”

The polled people aged 16-44 years were having sex less than five times a month. This figure is compared with more than 6 times a month on the last two occasions when the survey on sexual attitudes and lifestyles was conducted in 1990-91 and 1999-2001.

A result was drawn from this survey that our modern life is having impact on libidos (sexual interests).

Dr Cath Mercer, from University College Landon commented that people seems more worried about their jobs and money. They are having less interest in sex. However, it is believed that modern technologies are also playing key role in this changing trend towards sex. People go to their bedrooms with tablets and smartphones and spend more of their time on Twitter and Facebook or answering emails.

A comparison was made between the sex trends observed in 1990s and most recently conducted survey. Here you can see the results of surveys conducted to access people’s interest in having sex in a month. See the results in following table:

She also commented that survey results show that couples aging 16 to 44 years show their interest in porn as a substitute for sex.

Men interviewed in 2010-2012 reported that they are having sex 4.9 times a month while women reported that they are having sex 4.8 times a month. People polled in previous surveys reported to have sex more than six for both sexes.

Another survey was conducted by NatCen Social Research and analyzed by researchers from University College Landon and the Landon School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine in which older people were polled to know about these sex lives. The results showed that 42% of women and 60% of men aging 65-74 years had sex in the past year. This was the group having the least sex that was 2-3 times a month for men and 1.4 times a month for women.

Dr. Cath Mercer said if it is thought about the amount of sex that the overall population has, there is a significant decrease in the frequency of having sex a month.

The age group having the most sex is 25-34 year aged people. Men in this age group are having sex 5.4 times a month and for women of age group 16-24 years, this average was 5.8 times a month.

The latest survey that is carried out after every 10 years also reveal the same fact, the age at which people start having sex is lower in the younger age groups.

The average rate of having sex per month in people of less than 25 years old is 16 compared with 19 for men and 18 for women in the 65-74 age group.

Some other findings of above discussed surveys are listed below:

– One out of six pregnancies in the UK is unplanned
– About half of men and women polled out have had a recent sexual problem, but only a 10th of such people interviewed showed that they were worried about their sexual health and having real spice of their sexual lives.
– It was seen that the people have less interest in sex that is one of the most common issues that affect people’s sexual lives, and this problem is not only confined to women but, about 15% of men are also experiencing the problem of loss of libido (sexual interests).
– As per the survey in 2000, people have become have increased their interest in same-sex relationships but are less tolerant of cheating spouses. Attitudes have changed to significant extent.
– Average women under the age of 44 years reported that they had had 7.7 partners over their lives while this average for men was 11.7.
– Some 3.6% of men had paid for sex in the last five years and this number was very minor in women. Hardly any women had had paid sex.

Genevieve Edwards belonging to Marie Stopes International comments: “A key insight from the survey is that people are having sex earlier and having children later, which means that, on average, women in Britain spend about 30 years of their life needing to avert an unplanned pregnancy, yet many are not being informed about or offered the full range of services”.

“Long-acting contraceptives, for example, can be extremely effective and convenient but too many are never offered the choice.”

But overall results from total polled out people have been reported in the Lancet in which another fact was revealed about extent to which people are forced to have sex against their will. One out of 10 women and one in 70 men reported to have had sex about their will. However, very few of these people had told anyone about their experience. According to this study, 13% of women and only 8% of these men had reported that crime to police.


With the busy hectic lifestyle that everyone seems to be leading today, it seems almost impossible to meet someone of the opposite sex the way they use to meet such as on a blind date, someone from work or church, or a friend of a the family. As result, many turn to online dating sites to help them find someone for them. If you do find that someone you want to take out on a date, here are some tips to help you do it in a safe manner for both men and women.

For the first time, make arrangements to meet in a public place and never let them pick you up because they should not know your home address for a variety of reasons such as the first date is a bust and you do not want to see each again you would not want them to know your address just in case the other person does not take the rejection seriously and stalks you.

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It should be in a public place because the person they portray online may not be the real person you meet and you want to make sure that the first date is a safe one.

Pay half of the dinner bill so you do not feel obligated to give anything in return or go on another date.

Be careful about the amount of alcohol that you drink because you do not want your judgment clouded.

Never let your guard down because the person, man or woman, may not be who they seem to be. There could be a sinister side that does not show up on their online dating profile.

After a date, have a friend that you can go to just in case they try to follow you home to get your home address.

Always let someone know where you are going and who you are going to be with. You might even consider a time when you will call in and let them know everything is okay.

If you drive your own car, make sure that it is parked near the front of the restaurant and in a brightly lit part of the lot. Do not let them walk you to the car, especially if you are a woman. To be even safer, take a cab to and from the restaurant.

These are just some of the ways that you can be safe when you go on an online date.


If your sex life is lagging, you can make it good again. Many women are having lackluster performance in the sexual department, and they need a big power up, but they don’t know where to turn to. Even women that experience basic satisfaction with sex, there’s a whole new world of pleasure that they’re not experiencing. If women could be more receptive and sensitive with just the application of a simple cream, most of them would pounce on the opportunity. Now, there is such a cream. Vigorelle™ is an all-natural body cream for women. Vigorelle™ has been called an “instant turn-on cream” for women, and it is put on to a woman’s most intimate, sensitive, and private areas prior or during lovemaking to significantly increase the sensation and intensity of orgasms. What a great idea that you could get a simple cream that would dramatically increase the sensitivity and intensity of orgasms. With just a quick topical treatment, your sex life is dramatically enhanced.

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There are no pills to take, no manuals, no strange positions. All you have to do is apply a delicious little cream, and it will turn every touch into exotic pleasure.

Vigorelle™ is manufactured and packaged in a state-of-the-art medical-grade center. It has no toxic petrochemicals, and it is designed with the highest-quality, all-natural ingredients that were chosen by experienced naturopaths for their sex-boosting properties.

Up to 46% of women experience no satisfaction at all in the bedroom. That’s just unacceptable. Some women may have wondered what all the hype was about sex, and why it was so popular. A lot of women don’t even know what an orgasm feels like. Vigorelle™ might help you discover orgasm for the first time if you’re a woman that just can’t get enough good sexual pleasure on her own. You’ll finally see how great sex can be with this supplement.

So much of how good a man feels about himself is how good a lover he is. A huge part of a man’s self-image is how great of a lover he thinks is. The great pleasure and heightened sensations that you express in the bedroom will help make your man feel a lot better about himself. Couples that have better sex also have better relationships. Sexual problems can start to erase intimacy. Vigorelle™ is a relationship-booster in that sense.


One thing that men around the world constantly worry about is whether they are working with the right size equipment in order to sexually please their significant other. The age old question of whether size really does matter or not is something that more and more men are asking. The answer to this is different depending on who the person talks to. Most women when their husband asks them if their penis size is really an issue are going to find that their women are going to state no. For many women out there, no matter what the size of equipment that the man is working with, they are going to be happy with their sex lives simply because women associate sex with love. So who does size matter to?

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Women do care somewhat, most single women at least that are discussing their sex life with their friends. They may compare size and most women do have a preference as to whether they like something with more width or more length, or a combination of both. Why does this matter to women? Mainly because for some women the feeling is different and they simply enjoy having a man that has bigger equipment rather than small.

So do men care about the size of their penis? This is the one area in which all mean are going to be sensitive about, because they do care about the size. Consider the number of times in which men see each other and they are going to find that deep inside their minds that they are comparing each other to one another. It may sound a bit odd, but it is simply natural for men to compare one another in terms of size. Men seem to think that in order to fully satisfy a woman that he must have the biggest that is out there. However, that is not always the case as people are going to find that the size does not always matter if the man knows what he is doing.

Those men that are worried about their size will find that they can do things in order to change this. They can use those male enhancements that are out there in order to ensure that they are going to gain a few inches, and this is commonly something that men try. Other men find that they simply make do with what they have since they want to ensure that they do not do any damage. There are exercises that the guy can do in order to ensure that he is as big as he can be. And these are exercises that he can learn about through the supplements that are on the market. He will find that these things are not something that he should not be upset or shy about doing because truth is told if most men would tell the truth, then they would be willing to do whatever they want in order to make themselves bigger. It is merely a confidence issue for the man and having what he believes to be a bigger and more competent size, then he is going to feel better about himself.

Those men that are somewhat smaller than average are actually going to suffer from self-esteem issues since he is going to feel as though he cannot be what women want him to be. When this happens the man may actually avoid being intimate simply because he is ashamed of his size. Though, most women are not interested in size as much as they are the romance and love that goes with the relationship.


Sex is awesome. It makes you feel good and connects you to another person in the closest way possible. Sex is also great for your health. Its benefits include immune system improvement and keeping your weight at a healthy level.

Sex can reduce your blood pressure, which will lower your overall stress level. Your response to stress can be greatly improved if you have sex regularly. A study showed that people who had sex before a stressful situation responded better to the stress than those who had not. Your immune system can also benefit from a good sex life. Regular sex has been linked with higher levels of a certain antibody that can prevent colds and various other infections.

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The physical aspects of sexual relations can burn a decent amount of calories as well. It is said that a half an hour of sex can burn around eighty five calories. Though it is not much all at once, over a period of time it could help in your weight loss attempts and in weight management. Se is good exercise, says one expert because you have to be both physically and mentally active.

Sex is also great for your cardiovascular system. Sex has been said to reduce the risk of stroke and fatal heart attack. The endorphins released during sex have also been known to reduce people’s pain. Headaches, arthritis, and even menstrual cramps have all been known to improve during and after sex.

For men, frequently ejaculating can lower your risk of prostate cancer. It seems that the more you ejaculate, the lower your risk for prostate cancer can be. In women, the workout sex gives your pelvic muscles can reduce your risk of a weak bladder later in life. You can do simple exercises while having sex to increase this benefit by just squeezing the pelvic muscles as if you are trying not to pee.

Finally, sex helps you sleep. The chemicals that reduce pain and stress after sex also encourage sleep. Getting a good amount of sleep has a multitude of health benefits itself, including keeping your weight level ideal and leveling out your blood pressure. Most people know that a good session of sex can wipe you out; sleeping better will improve your health tremendously.

Sex is great. It is fun, it is intimate, and it can help your health in so many ways. If it hard for you or your partner to get in the mood, just keep a reminder handy of all the wonderful benefits that sex can have.

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Many women feel that their soul mate, you must find a way through magical or mysterious, but nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, the best way for you to find your ideal partner to take a scientific approach, methodological, and only date other men. Here are five tips to keep in mind relations, after all, so you can identify your soul mate with all the other people out there that you find interesting.

1 – The first advice is always to date men from different batches. If you are limited to very few, their opportunities are reduced to meet your soul mate. Online dating sites are a lot of people find suitable for their approach much easier.

2 – Once you start dating, be careful what people that are complementary to the majority. But remember that not everyone can say what they like about their hair, hold, etc. and look for visual evidence that the display attracted to you.

3 – Keep your eyes on the man who finds you attractive. Chances are if you are in a dance hall, bar or other social environment, there are a number of guys that invite you to dance, or go to the other and no. Focus your time and energy to those who do.

4 – Once you have a couple of guys start to narrow your choices to the three most attractive you will find in this way will not be overwhelmed by too many options.

5 – Take your time and get the three boys who have chosen before you, you’re the man of your dreams to decide. It is important to see how they behave in different situations, so careful what you say and how they work. Compare what you want on your list of ideal features to find a soul mate and see how they measure.

Follow these tips relationship if you find your soul mate, which will not be difficult!

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